OLIVE BRANCH

She: Hi T, are you still angry with me?

(3 days later)

He: Hi A, I am not angry. But I have to say u handled the whole thing very badly and all I know is that you are not the girl for me. This I am certain. Your basically a good person who has a lot to offer so I know you will find your guy. I’m just not him.
Good luck with your search. Best, T

She: Thank you for the reply T. It was hurting alot to imagine that you wouldn't care enough to reply to me. So thank you for being considerate, it means alot. It saddens me greatly to hear that you are so convinced that I am not the right girl based on the short and very intense time we spent together. It feels so unfair since all you saw are fragments here and there but I understand that the long-distance aspect was something you were struggling with from the start. I also felt like I was being 'tested' alot and I wonder what feedback you would've gotten if you had just been present and let yourself feel before judging, but that's neither here nor there. Do I have alot to learn? Yes. In hindsight, should I have gone back on Match as I did? NO! But to completely discount what we had because of one mistake is a very judgemental attitude that I too used to have until I learned to be more forgiving in general. So maybe this is some form of Karmic lesson. Now I know how much it sucks on the receiving end and I accept it. Thank you for this valuable lesson.